I recently saw a post on Facebook that posed the following query “If you could take any three people to lunch at Costco for their $1.50 hot dog and a drink deal, who would you take? Costco began this deal in 1985 and has held to that price for over 40 years with no plans to change the price. That in itself makes the meal legendary, almost like it’s a part of Americana. Admittedly, they changed the hot dog from Hebrew National to the in-house Kirkland Signature dogs, but the dogs remain “all beef hot dogs.” According to the company, they sell over 130 million of the combos annually which surpasses the number of hot dogs sold annually by Major League Baseball.

As a former businessman and accounting professor I realize that Costco does this as a loss leader. People come in for a cheap lunch and leave having spent 100’s of dollars in the rest of the store. Good strategy. 

Back to the Facebook post. I found it interesting to read through the comments that people made. You take three people of your choosing to lunch at Costco for a total of $6. Who do you take? Some people responded “EWWWW! Hot dogs? No way!” Others would take celebrities, deceased friends or relatives, three random homeless people, Jesus and the Holy Trinity, among other choices. But what I observed was that the responses tended to tell me something about the person giving the answer. I don’t want to overthink this, but one could make some assumptions about the spirituality of these responses.

One respondent said that he would invite three dead people, so he would have four hot dogs all to himself. Obviously, someone who tends to be self-centered, or at least someone who doesn’t take himself very seriously. 

Many responses indicated a desire for a family reunion of sorts by inviting relatives, living or dead. Strong traditional family ties would be indicated here, maybe along with some regrets that could be made right.

Many people listed various celebrities as their luncheon guests. There may be a couple of things at play here. First, these people who are star-struck and want some time with their favorite celebrities. Or they want an opportunity to get to know these stars as real people.  One person even included a combination of individuals who did not see eye-to-eye so he could sit back and watch the “spirited” discussion. Choices such as Donald Trump, Barack Obama, and Hilary Clinton. Beware of thrown hot dogs! 

A number of people included famous people from the past on their lists. My guess is a desire to learn more about these people and a chance to learn from them. And maybe get their take on how society has changed over the years.

There were plenty of people who wanted to invite Jesus, God, and/or the Holy Spirit. This struck me as interesting as we always have the opportunity to speak to them through prayer. But maybe a little face-to-face time would gain some new insights . One person included Jesus in hopes He would turn the Pepsi into wine. Some have poor math skills or they were rule-breakers as their list was longer than three invitees. 

Several altruistic individuals would invite three homeless people. While this is obviously a worthy venture, this is something you could do anyway. Why not try it?

Please do not take offense at what I have written here. It was done in good fun and to help us think about why people would respond as they did. For me, I’m not sure who I would invite. I would like the opportunity to speak and talk with some of the many people who have meant so much to me over the years. Maybe some of my teachers who steered me in the right direction. Or business colleagues who were good mentors. There have been many spiritual mentors that I could include.  Growing up, I must admit that I was a Yankee fan. What a delight it would be to talk with Mickey Mantle, Bobby Richardson, and Whitey Ford. It would also be nice to dine with my deceased parents and the only grandparent I ever knew. Maybe ancestors I never met. Or my late wife of 48 years. It would be fun to catch up with high school or college friends. In the end, I think I would invite people who are here today, people I know and love so I could show them some love and appreciation. My wife, Heather, comes to mind but she probably wouldn’t eat a hot dog. My two grown children and one of their spouses (of course, that gets me in the “dog” house for leaving out one spouse). Maybe my three grandchildren, at least that’s an easy number with no one left out. Perhaps some members of my step-family but there are far more than three of them.

You know what? At $1.50 a person, there is no real limit to who I could take. It’s been an interesting exercise to think about this and think of people in my life, past and present, who have meant so much to me. So, everybody, let’s all get together for a John Stancil Friends and Family reunion at the local Costco. I’m buying ($1.50 limit per person). 

Think about the effect you might have by buying lunch for a youth sports team. Or maybe a group of seniors needing an outing. What about inviting local law enforcement officers, first responders, or city/county employees who provide services for you. Maybe a single parent with some young children. As Christians, we can be a (small) beacon of light in someone’s day. What’s your answer?

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Psalm 122:6-7 reads “Pray for the peace of Jerusalem: “May they prosper who love you. May peace be within your walls, and prosperity within your palaces.” Most Christians are aware of this passage and may even pray for the peace of Jerusalem. But I’ve always had somewhat of a hollow feeling when I pray for Israel. To me, simply praying “ Lord we pray for the peace of Jerusalem” is only a framework for prayer. How do we “build out our prayers as we pray for the peace of Jerusalem?

Very few people alive today recall the time before 1948, when Israel once again became a nation. Prior to that the nation ceased to exist in AD 138 when the Roman emperor Hadrian, crushed a revolt and banned all Jews from Palestine. After World War II Britain was given a mandate by the League of Nations to administer the territory. This area was sometimes referred to as Mandatory Palestine, but there was no Jewish nation, no Israel, until 1948 when the modern State of Israel came into existence. 

There is Much to Pray About for Israel.

Salvation. The Jewish people are God’s chosen people but, by and large, they are not saved. There is one way to Heaven and that way is accepting Jesus as Savior and Lord. In Romans 10:1, Paul prayed “my heart’s desire and my prayer to God for them [the Jewish people] is for their salvation.”

Release of the Holy Spirit. Don’t focus on human efforts at peace or the political situation. An angel gave Zechariah a message from God (4:6)  “This is the word of the Lord to Zerubbabel, saying, ‘Not by might nor by power, but by My Spirit.’” Only when the Holy Spirit turns the hearts of the Jewish people will God’s plan will come to fruition. All earthly powers will fail. I don’t mean to sound discouraging but human leadership alone will not bring lasting peace. Pray for the Spirit to inhabit the people.

Bring them Back. From Romans 11:25 we know that the future restoration is not only a possibility, it is a certainty. “For I do not want you, brothers and sisters, to be uninformed of this mystery—so that you will not be wise in your own estimation—that a partial hardening has happened to Israel until the fullness of the Gentiles has come in.”  Paul is saying that Israel’s blindness is only temporary.

Fullness of the Gentiles. There is some debate about the meaning of the “fullness of the Gentiles.” Many think this refers to the Great Commission when the Gospel has reached every nation and peoples worldwide. At that point, the church will be taken up. 

Warren Wiersbe writes “The name “Jerusalem” means “foundation of peace,” yet the city has been a center of conflict for centuries. If we understand biblical prophecy correctly, there can be no peace in Jerusalem or on earth until the Prince of Peace reigns on David’s throne (Is. 9:6, 7; Luke 1:26–33). So, when we pray for the peace of Jerusalem, we are actually praying, ‘Your kingdom come’ (Matt. 6:10).” 

Pray for Israel’s Leadership. Current and future Israeli leaders need us to pray for God to give them wisdom – politically and militarily as well as spiritually. 

Pray for God’s ordained inheritance of the land. In Genesis 17:8 God told Abraham “And I will give to you and to your descendants after you the land where you live as a stranger, all the land of Canaan, as an everlasting possession; and I will be their God.” It is a historical fact that they have never possessed all of the land”. Ezekiel 48:1 lists the clear boundaries of the land Israel is to possess. Dr. David Jeremiah states that “If Israelis were currently occupying all the land that God gave to them, they would control all the holdings of present-day Israel, Lebanon, and the West Bank of Jordan, plus substantial portions of Syria, Iraq, and Saudi Arabia. Israel has never possessed anywhere near this amount of land.”

Bless Israel. In Numbers, Balaam was told to curse Israel but found he could not. Instead he proclaimed “Blessed is everyone who blesses you [Israel], And cursed is everyone who curses you.” We need to bless Israel in our prayers.

The overriding fact to remember is that God made promises to the Jewish people. God keeps His promises – all of them. And we should mention one more promise. In Genesis 12:3, God promised Abraham “And I will bless those who bless you, and the one who curses you I will curse.” I want God’s blessing. Do you?

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All scripture references are from the New American Standard Bible unless otherwise indicated.

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Several years ago, I was a member of a business group that promoted choosing a “word of the year” to guide us in our business pursuits. I did this for three years, but as I approached retirement, I didn’t continue the practice. When I chose a word, I had someone prepare a poster that I could frame and display in my office to help keep me on track. (Those three posters are pictured throughout this article.) A few weeks ago, while attending Sunday morning worship, the pastor spoke on “Steps to Spiritual Health In 2026.” He listed six words using the first letter in HEALTH for each step. His word for “H” was Holiness. 

Not to discount the other five words but “holiness” struck a chord with me. I immediately saw an application of this word to me and realized that I needed to be more holy. As I meditated on this concept (be on the lookout for a separate blog in the future that delves into holiness) God prompted me to adopt this word for the year. When I mentioned the concept of an annual word to some acquaintances, they found it a new concept for them and vowed to seek God’s word for them for the coming year. Since I had originally done it more from a business perspective, I thought it might be good to apply the concept to my spiritual life.

Isaiah 46:10 reminds us that God is in control. “My plan will be established, and I will accomplish all My good pleasure.”  This tells me two things. First, if we ask God for a word, he will give us one. Secondly, He will guide us in the direction of His plan. We must remember that only God has revealed events before they happened – all to accomplish His plans.

We often talk about the seasons of life. From a professional standpoint, as an adult I can identify several seasons. I held corporate jobs. In another season, I became a college instructor and eventually professor. I owned a CPA business. Now I am in the season of retirement. Seasons are common in the Bible. The Israelites had a long season in the wilderness. That was preceded by a season under slavery in Egypt. Revelation speaks of seasons yet to come. A word of the year can help us navigate the seasons in our lives.

Our word of the year is more about releasing control of our lives to God rather than just choosing a word. He is leading me to become more holy through giving me that word for the year. We have the freedom to choose any word we want, but only if God gives us that word will it come to full fruition – He alone knows what we need and when we need it. Otherwise, we may go astray. In retrospect, I see His hand in the words I previously was given. What steps can we take to  choose the right word? 

Pray for Direction. I see six steps that can guide us along this path. It always starts with prayer. Discover what God wants to teach us at this time in our lives. In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus promises “Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and the one who seeks finds, and to the one who knocks it will be opened.” How often does God not keep His promises.

Where are You? Before we can embark on a journey, we need to determine where we are at the time. If you are blindfolded and taken to a remote spot, how do you know which way to get back to where we desire to be? Find a landmark to guide you. Look at your recent history. What did God teach you in the past year? Where do you need to grow?

Scripture Reading. If we want to hear what God has for us, we need to look at what He tells us in scripture. This may help us to see that “our” direction is not where God wants us.

Prayer. Suppose there is a task your spouse would like for you to do. How are you going to know what he or she wants unless you ask them? It is the same with God. Seek Him. Hebrews 11:6 tells us he will reward us for doing so. “And without faith it is impossible to please Him, for the one who comes to God must believe that He exists, and that He proves to be One who rewards those who seek Him.” We must have faith, we must come to Him, and we must seek Him. There is no room for the attitude “Well, I don’t think it will do any good to ask God about that, but I’ll throw up a prayer.”

Be Intentional. Mull over various words. Find a word that describes where you sense God is leading you. Keep the thought in the back of your mind. The first time I did this, the word came to me while I was driving to the doctor. This year, Holiness came to me even before I was consciously seeking.

Integrate it Into Your Daily Life. As mentioned, I had the word framed and posted in my office. Maybe use it as the wallpaper on your table or computer. Buy an office name plate with your word instead of a name. Incorporate it into your prayers. Seek out scripture that is related to the word. You may want to keep a journal of how God is using the word in your life. Share with friends in order to keep yourself accountable.

The choosing of a word for the year is about getting yourself aligned with God’s purpose in your life at this time. When you’re aligned with Him your life will change for the better. Remember God is our good father. As does a human father, He delights when we come to him, You will find mercy and grace, along with His peace.

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All scripture references are from the New American Standard Bible  unless otherwise stated.

 

 

          Imagine

 

Music has its way of working itself into our lives. We may hear a song in church on Sunday morning and it  stays with us all week. Even if it’s a song we don’t like, it becomes our earworm for the day or longer. In a comprehensive study at Harvard researchers found that some form of music exists in every society. Moreover, across societies, music is associated with behaviors such as infant care, healing, dance, love, mourning, warfare, processions, and ritual. Examining lullabies, healing songs, dance songs, and love songs in particular, they discovered that songs that share behavioral functions tend to have similar musical features. This should come as no surprise, as we all have favorite songs that we associate with certain events.

For the Christian, it is important to know what we are listening to, as our minds receive what we hear. Most of us have probably been buying gas for our car and the vehicle across from us is blaring music with violence, hate, foul language, sexual innuendo and the like. After we left, parts of that music may stay with us. Another potential danger in music is that, if we repeat the lyrics in our minds often enough, they become ingrained in our thinking. 

Following are the lyrics of two songs that have been favorites of mine over the years. “Imagine” by John Lennon and Yoko Ono and “I Can Only Imagine” by Bart Millard. I publish the lyrics here so my readers can see what actual lyrics are included in the songs. I have edited repetitive words and phrases in order to conserve space.

Imagine

Imagine there’s no heaven

It’s easy if you try

No hell below us

Above us only sky

Imagine all the people

Living for today.

Imagine there’s no countries

It isn’t hard to do

Nothing to kill or die for

And no religion, too

Imagine all the people

Living life in peace.

You may say I’m a dreamer

But I’m not the only one

I hope someday you’ll join us

And the world will be as one

Imagine no possessions

I wonder if you can

No need for greed or hunger

A brotherhood of man

Imagine all the people

Sharing all the world.

You may say I’m a dreamer

But I’m not the only one

I hope someday you’ll join us

And the world will live as one.

 

I Can Only Imagine

I can only imagine what it will be like

When Your face is before me

I can only imagine, yeah

When I walk by Your side

I can only imagine what my eyes will see

Surrounded by Your glory

What will my heart feel?

Will I dance for You, Jesus

Or in awe of You be still?

Will I stand in Your presence

Or to my knees will I fall?

Will I sing hallelujah?

Will I be able to speak at all?

I can only imagine when that day comes

And I find myself standing in the sun/son

I can only imagine when all I will do

Is forever—forever worship You

I can only imagine

When all I will do

Is forever—forever worship You

I can only imagine.

Different World versus Heaven. As I study the words and the music, I find four differences in the focus of these songs. Jacob Uitti wrote about “Imagine,” stating “It’s a simple thought: what if the world was different? What if humanity prioritized generosity and care more than short-term safety, financial gain and material wealth? It’s a thought we all want to believe in, in many ways.” Regarding “I Can Only Imagine” Ronnie Bennett wrote “the singer pictures what it might be like to be in Heaven, standing before Jesus. It doesn’t offer answers, just a list of emotional and physical reactions someone might have in that moment.”

Dream versus Reality. Lennon sang of his dream that the world could live in harmony. That is not a bad dream. It is universal. Former President Carter, stating that he and Roslyn had visited about 125, said that in many countries this song was used almost equally with national anthems. 

On the other hand Bart Millard wrote of a future certainty. Rather than dreaming about what would never be, he opened his mind to speculate what it might be like when he first sees Jesus in Heaven. This is not a dream, it is a future reality for all who call Jesus Lord and Savior.

Something to Strive for versus a Gift. Lennon asks us to imagine a better world. Imagining away Heaven and hell. No countries, no killing, no religion, all the people living in peace, a brotherhood of man, no greed or hunger, no possessions. From the beginning of creation, these things have been a part of our human existence. We can’t imagine them away. We are fallen creatures, even those who call themselves Christian. With no Heaven and no hell there would be no God. Removing God from the mix would result in the opposite of what Lennon wants. Satan is, at present, god of the earth. 2 Corinthians 4:4 reads “ the god of this world [Satan] has blinded the minds of the unbelieving so that they will not see the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ, who is the image of God.” 1 John 5:19 (CEV) affirms “We are certain we come from God and the rest of the world is under the power of the devil.” God has allowed Satan this power, but it is coming to an end John 12:31 lays down the law “Now judgment is upon this world; now the ruler of this world will be cast out.”

God, in His infinite wisdom has provided a way for us to escape Satan, his lies, and eternity in Hell. Not by our dreaming of a better world, but God sent His son to take the punishment we deserve when Jesus was crucified on the cross. God has given us a gift. All we have to do is accept it. 

That fact frees us from having false dreams about a better world and the certainty of eternity in Heaven. God is perfect, He will do, and has done, what He said He would do Isaiah 25:1 (NET) “or you have done extraordinary things, and executed plans made long ago exactly as you decreed”  

Wistful versus Celebratory. There is no question that Lennon was an introspective thinker. Recall that he wrote this song in a tumultuous period in his life. The Beatles had broken up, He was married to Yoko, a significant influence on his thoughts and perspectives.  There is no question that Lennon abused drugs, and apparently unsuccessfully tried to break his addiction. “Imagine” seems to be a wistful song. He may have come to the realization that none of his dreams would come true. They were all his “Utopia” and it was never to be.

On the other hand, “I Can Only Imagine” is celebratory. His abusive father had come to Christ. That radically changed both of their lives. As his father lay dying of cancer, Bart had the assurance that he would once again see his father on the other side. He was able to celebrate his father being in Heaven while speculating what Heaven must be like, knowing there would one day be a great reunion between the two. John 5:24 assures us that eternal life has already started for the Christian (CEV) “I tell you for certain that everyone who hears my message and has faith in the one who sent me has eternal life and will never be condemned. They have already gone from death to life.” Jesus said “for certain” and there is no falsehood in our God.

God is a just God and those who do not accept His gift of salvation are doomed to an eternity in hell. But He is also a faithful God and your acceptance of salvation is a certainty. You will be celebrating in Heaven.

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Scripture is from the NASB unless otherwise indicated

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Our Worth. Last week, Heather and I watched the classic movie It’s A Wonderful Life. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve seen this movie, but it’s been more than a few. The traditional lesson from this movie is that everyone is important. Everyone touches many lives over the course of their “three score and ten” or whatever our lifespan becomes.  The Bible tells us this in Matthew 10:29-31 “Are two sparrows not sold for a penny? And yet not one of them will fall to the ground apart from your Father. But even the hairs of your head are all counted. So do not fear; you are more valuable than a great number of sparrows.” God cares for even the least.

And, of course, Romans 5:8 affirms our value when Paul wrote “But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” You might ask “Why?” Simply, “God IS love.” (I John 4:8).” Love is His being. Christ died for our sins because he loves us so much. Pause here and ponder that last sentence. How many people would die for you? 

Potter Versus Bailey. As I watched the movie this year, I saw something different. At one level in this movie we have Henry Potter as the bad guy or antagonist (How many of you knew his name was Henry?).  Potter “stole” the deposit for the Building and Loan. Subsequently , Potter appealed to George’s materialistic side, offering him a job at a large salary. Always looking out for himself, few would have any sympathy for Potter, but the fact remains he was the power broker and he pretty much ran the town, constrained only by a few such as George. Potter lacked compassion. He only cared for himself.

On the other hand we have George Bailey with dreams of traveling the world as the protagonist. They were constantly squaring off. Potter is always trying to get rid of George but never succeeds. George has given up his dreams to run the Building and Loan and feels like a failure. When Clarence (the angel) is dispatched to earth to help George, he strategically shows George how the town of Bedford Falls would have fared if George had never lived. George was aghast when he saw that it was now Pottersville. The bar was rowdy, there was all sorts of illicit entertainment downtown. Bailey Park wasn’t there – it was a cemetery.  

Evil Prevails for Now. As I was watching the final few minutes of the movie, I realized that it showed what happens in our lives when good is restrained or eliminated. Potter took control and tightened his grip on the town. Potter represents all that is evil. He uses the tricks of Satan to convince people that he seeks their best. He plays the nice guy until he gets them in his grasp.

George represents the good in life. I am not comparing him to Jesus by any means, but George spent his life in a Christian manner. Helping people, giving up his dreams so that he could serve and help the people of Bedford Falls.

This is not dissimilar to what will actually occur sometime in the future. After Jesus raptures the saints, good basically vanishes from the earth and it will experience the Great Tribulation – seven years of Satan ruling over the earth. Seven years of unimaginable evil. But in the end, Christ will return and begin His millennial reign. The Lamb will be replaced by the Lion. Satan will be conquered and sent into an eternity in Hell.

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All scripture, unless otherwise indicated, is from the NASB translation.

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This blog was originally published in October, 2025. However, due to its timely, ongoing message, I am posting it once more.

 

Annually in October, we see stores filled with various Halloween items – decorations, costumes, and all sorts of ways to observe this day. It has become one of the largest holidays in the United States with an  estimated economic impact in 2026 of $13.5 billion dollars. For some Christians this presents a dilemma. What is Halloween? How should a Christian approach this holiday?

The name “Halloween” comes from the All Saints Day celebration of the early church as a solemn remembrance of Christian martyrs. The celebration began as All Hallows Eve that eventually morphed into “Halloween.” All Saints Day was established to counter pagan influences that had crept in and to directly challenge a pagan holiday. The result was that the church only succeeded in lending a Christian approach to a pagan ritual. Today Halloween has become associated with demonic activity including Satan. As Christians, I believe that we should never give Satan an inch – he will take a foot, a yard, a mile, our souls.

Of course, the Bible is silent on Halloween, as it was not in existence when the Bible was written. So there is no direct authoritative instruction on how to deal with the holiday. But we can use the Bible to draw some principles regarding this day. I believe there are four possible approaches that Christians can take in approaching this day.

Participate. One can take the approach that Halloween is no longer a pagan holiday and is ok for Christians to participate. And it does have spiritual roots, but is now a cultural holiday. As such, it can be seen as innocent fun. It can also be an opportunity to build a sense of community. However, Halloween does utilize demonic themes. Ephesians 5:11 (AMP) reads “Do not participate in the worthless and unproductive deeds of darkness, but instead expose them [by exemplifying personal integrity, moral courage, and godly character]. And in Ephesians 4:27 (AMP) Paul writes “And do not give the devil an opportunity [to lead you into sin by holding a grudge, or nurturing anger, or harboring resentment, or cultivating bitterness].” Given these scriptures, I choose not to participate in anything related to Halloween. 

Consider Alternatives. Rather than participate in this holiday, we can utilize alternatives such as Trunk or Treat. Many churches have such alternatives. One word of advice here. If you’re going in this direction, get it right. I once saw a church advertising its “Trick or Trunk” event!  Care must be taken to avoid anything of the devil. Some churches may hold a Fall Festival on an alternative date. This can be a valid non-confrontational approach that separates Christians from bad influences and reaches out in a positive manner.

Passively Ignore the Day. Ignoring Halloween can be difficult to do, as schools, workplaces, restaurants, and other establishments may decorate, wear costumes, and otherwise promote the day. I once had a pastor who actively avoided stores during the months such decor was on display. Paul wrote in 1 Corinthians 4:21 “What do you desire? That I come to you with a rod, or with love and a spirit of gentleness?” Having such a spirit and love can go further toward reaching the lost than a spirit of contentiousness. 

Actively Oppose It. In actively opposing the day, refrain from belittling those with different views. For example, some people will pretend the NFL Superbowl is a minor event with statements such as “I heard there’s a football game today.” Everybody has their likes and dislikes and it doesn’t do anyone any good by belittling things liked by another person. But we can discuss with the other party why we oppose Halloween without talking down to those with other opinions. In our opposition to Halloween we can easily become distracted from the central issue of our Christianity.

Active opposition can be difficult, especially with young children who feel they are missing out on candy, costumes and the like. This is where participation in alternatives may prove to be helpful. However, this can be an opportunity to teach our children about our Christian beliefs as opposed to those following another path. Remember that your objective is to help them see the truth, not to win a debate.

Ruler of This Earth. Whether we consider Halloween to be good or evil is dependent on our personal beliefs and interpretation of the holiday’s traditions and history. Be aware that Satan is, for now, ruler of this earth. 2 Corinthians 4:4 reads “Be of sober spirit, be on the alert. Your adversary, the devil, prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour.” John 12:31 tells us he is a defeated ruler “Now judgment is upon this world; now the ruler of this world will be cast out.” Satan is doing his best to keep humans away from God. He is our adversary. Nowhere in the Bible are we given permission to toy with evil. We are to shun it. As Christians we are to replace the false with what is true.

Worship the King. Lord, we pray for the triumph of good over evil. We know the victory is yours and we can have a part in your victory. We know we will participate in great worship as described in Revelation 4 “And when the living creatures give glory, honor, and thanks to Him who sits on the throne, to Him who lives forever and ever, the twenty-four elders will fall down before Him who sits on the throne, and they will worship Him who lives forever and ever, and will cast their crowns before the throne, saying, ‘Worthy are You, our Lord and our God, to receive glory and honor and power; for You created all things, and because of Your will they existed, and were created.’” Amen.

Come Lord Jesus.

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All scripture unless otherwise indicated is from the New American Standard Bible.

 

Probably one of the more familiar writings of Paul is his discussion of putting on the whole armor of God. (Ephesians 6:11-17). This passage takes some thought to read and apply it to our daily lives. Not many of us wear a helmet on a daily basis. We don’t wear breastplates, a literal belt of truth, carry a sword (just try taking one on an airplane!), or carry a shield. We do wear shoes. I have recently discovered an insightful writer whose books and website have a wealth of practical information. I would highly recommend Tim Challies for some good thoughts and commentary on your Christian walk. He recently posted an article “Go Ahead, Bring a Knife to a Gunfight,” in which he discusses how we can prepare to join the battle for right and against wrong. God calls all of us into this battle.  But we need the right kind of preparation. I know that me carrying a sword would most likely result in disaster or worse. Paul reminds us that our battle is not “against flesh and blood, we are wrestling with spiritual hosts of wickedness.” 

Committed to Truth. The first article Paul lists is the belt of truth. Truth as opposed to the lies of Satan, the father of lies. John 8:32 tells us that “and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” The Truth (Jesus) is the ultimate freedom. But the second aspect to the belt as truth is the emphasis on our personal commitment to truth and Truth. As Christians, this is vital.

Protection. The breastplate of righteousness is what we receive when Jesus becomes our Savior. This piece of equipment guards our heart and protects us against the lies of Satan. It is fashionable in today’s society to tell someone to “follow your heart.” This is bad advice, as Jeremiah 17:9 tells us “The heart is more deceitful than all else and is desperately sick.” We can’t trust our heart, as it is often controlled by emotions. Think about a law enforcement officer. He or she will frequently wear bullet proof vests for protection while on the job. Most of us will never need one of these, but the breastplate of righteousness is important to help keep us righteous (and alive).

Shoes. Whenever we go somewhere, we usually wear a pair of shoes. No woman would be caught dead with only one pair of shoes, and I confess I’m not much better. We need shoes suited to the task before us. You wouldn’t wear a pair of high heels to run a marathon. You wouldn’t wear sandals on a mountain climb. We should wear our “gospel shoes” to follow Jesus. To advance the gospel we must be able to move forward, following God wherever He leads. An old gospel hymn expresses this well when it says “Where He leads me I will follow, I’ll go with Him, with Him all the way” It goes on to say I’ll go with Him through the waters, the garden, to Calvary, to the judgement. We need to be ready to follow whereever He leads. Proper preparation allows us to follow, whatever our means of communication and travel. When we follow Him, we can bypass the obstacles placed in our path. 

Helmet of Salvation. The helmet protects the head. In today’s world helmets are worn by law enforcement officers, athletes, construction worker, bikers. They are common, with a singular purpose – to protect the head. As the head is the seat of our mind and thoughts, it is the most vital part of our body. Although there may be other factors involved, our decision to follow Christ is a decision formed in our brain. It is through our head that we can be certain of our salvation. This knowledge will help keep us from Satan’s deceptions. Finally, we have the peace of Christ. In John 14:27 He assured us  “Peace I leave you, My peace I give you; not as the world gives. ” Larry Burkett once said to me that the one thing Satan cannot counterfeit is God’s peace.

Shield of Faith.  Paul lists this as “above all.” It is through our faith that we are enabled to turn aside the attacks and temptations coming from Satan. In order to properly use our shield of faith we must know our faith. It’s as if I buy a fire extinguisher to help me put out fires in my home. Before I needto use it it, I need to learn to use it. Imagine a fire and you have to stop and learn how to operate that extinguisher.  Our preparation comes through reading, studying, and meditating God’s Word.

Sword of the Spirit. The tools we have listed so far have one thing in common. They are defensive, designed to help us overcome attacks from our enemy. They are preparatory, we do them to enable us to proceed toward the victory. The sword of the spirit is very important, as it is designed to advance the Kingdom. The other elements of our armor prepare us. Now we are ready to do battle. Two scriptures tell us the power of the sword. Hebrews 4:12 minces no words about the power of God’s Sword “For the word of God is living and active, and sharper than any two-edged sword, even penetrating as far as the division of soul and spirit, of both joints and marrow, and able to judge the thoughts and intentions of the heart.” In His high priestly prayer, Jesus prayed “Sanctify them in the truth; Your word is truth” (John 17:17).

There are many ways to use our “sword.” Some are very good writers, others are very persuasive speakers. Like Shamgar in the Old Testament, some may bring an ox-goad to the fight. We all have our given weapon in this spiritual battle. We should use the weapon God has given us. He will bless our efforts. Do not wish or seek to use a weapon you aren’t prepared to use.

A Final Assurance. Then Paul adds a vital instruction. He states “With every prayer and request,  pray at all times in the Spirit, and with this in view, be alert with all perseverance and every request for all the saints, You never graduate from “God School.” We are to:

      1. Pray in the Spirit at all times.
  1. Be alert.
  2. Persevere.
  3. Care for all saints.

As I was writing this, the event in the Phillies- Marlins baseball game came to mind where a woman was quite abusive and made a scene that the home run ball was hers, even after Drew Feltwell retrieved the ball and gave it to his ten-year old son for his birthday. Although he had every right to the ball, he took it from his son and gave it to the woman. He explained his actions by being more focused on just trying to set an example of how to de-escalate a situation in front of his son. In addition he asked people to leave her alone, as she has already suffered for what she did.

I could find no evidence that Drew Feltwell is a Christian. He appears to be a private person. But, Christian or not, he acted like we should. I saw Christ in his actions. I hope that all Christians would react in such a calm manner when attacked.  I am not sure I could do what he did.

Let’s all work on developing our own modern spiritual armor.

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Church finances can be a contentious topic. A frequently heard complaint is that “all the church talks about is money.” Some churches may get carried away. I know of a couple that visited a church and the pastor later made a home visit. This particular pastor brought a copy of the church budget for them to study. As an accountant, I like to study budgets, but this was too pushy for those unlike me. Probably it is an exaggeration that churches just talk about money, but there are some facts that we should know.

Money is often mentioned in the Bible. There are over 2300 verses that mention the money, wealth, and possessions. Jesus spoke about money roughly for 15% of his preaching and in 11 out of 39 parables.

Those not giving may feel guilty that they are not meeting God’s plan for finances.

People feel they can’t afford to give.

People give to Christian and other organizations but not to the church.

People misunderstand the spiritual gift of giving.

God wants all of His children to be givers. By following His plan, we will be abundantly blessed. As we discussed in a previous blog (God Said “Put Me to the Test), God uses finances to grow us as Christians. 

Prepare. Churches should prepare for a financial crisis. After living in Florida for almost 30 years, I know about preparation for a crisis.  Hurricanes are all too common to Floridians. Often, those who suffer the least in a storm are those who are prepared. As a form of preparation we recently installed hurricane windows throughout our house. When a storm approaches we take precautionary actions. Although the church in America faces many threats, there is a looming storm in the financial arena. Lacking mature, giving Christians, the church could dry up. 

 We live in a time of economic transformation in which many jobs may be eliminated. Other jobs may be downgraded. In short, the younger generations face personal economic instability. Also, there is a continuing massive retirement by the Baby Boomer generation. Boomers have sustained congregational giving for decades and now their income is declining as they retire. Many Boomers are not fully prepared for retirement as they pass their peak earning years. A church that does not teach God’s plan for individual finances may find itself unable to continue ministry. I was once part of a church in which there was little or no mention of church finances from the pulpit. That church suffered through some lean years, but fortunately it now appears to be on the right track.

Challenges. The previous century brought to the American people unprecedented prosperity. Despite our wealth, the average church giving in our churches is between two and three percent of income. Our society offers many options to spend our money. There is always something new to buy. Numerous parachurch organizations plead for our funds. These are, by and large, worthy causes. But they are not the church. Many  self-centered individuals may simply avoid being charitable and spend it on ourselves.

The storm goes even further for the local church. Not only are tithes and offerings threatened due to economic instability and reduced income, younger generations are less religious than their parents and grandparents. A study by done by Pew Research found that adults age 18-24 are less likely than older adults above age 73 to:

Identify as Christian 46% versus 80%.

Pray daily 27% versus 58%.

Attend religious services at least monthly 25% versus 49%.

Consider themselves religiously unaffiliated 43% versus 13%

Opportunities. New challenges bring new opportunities. Throughout the centuries the church has thrived by adapting its methods while maintaining its mission. The Industrial Revolution transformed our society. The invention of the automobile changed residential patterns. Our financial abundance has enabled us to travel and do other things with our newfound wealth. I would propose that churches follow the “4S” process.

Stewardship. The church has, by and large, failed to teach God’s plan of stewardship and the rewards that come with obedience. With average giving in the range of 2-3% of income we are failing God as Christians. Do not misunderstand me here. I am not advocating the “prosperity” gospel but am calling on churches and members to follow what God has decreed in regard to our tithes and offerings. God’s plan is not “name it and claim it,” but “give it and grow it.” And we will be blessed by God as we give.

Stay the course. Regardless of any solution, the church must remain true to its mission. But the world is changing and it must make preparations for the storm. Weather forecasts have reached the level of sophistication that we can prepare for many types of storms. The church can prepare for its storm. This could change what the church today looks like. But if it doesn’t prepare, some churches may disappear. The church universal is the Bride of Christ. Parts of that church may fall away, but the Church will stand.

Scrutinize. In preparing, the church must take a deep scrutinization of both the threat and its capabilities. It is no longer sufficient for churches to take the attitude that people will find them. We need to develop strategies to find, reach, and disciple the unsaved. 

Shape. This may entail creative shaping of the church to adapt to the crisis. Over the centuries the church has adapted to the storms. Many churches today no longer pass the offering plate. Churches don’t use hymnals as they once did. Many churches today stream their worship services across the globe. Sunday night services are largely a thing of the past. Many churches realized that having a building sit empty most of the week is a waste of resources and have opened the doors to other activities during the week. All of these represent adaptations to what they once did. The church must continue to adapt while remaining faithful to its mission. 

I’ve been actively involved in a church for over 75 years. My parents took me to church at least weekly. Once on my own, I continued this habit which became a lifestyle. I’ve been in a variety of churches. Some good and some not-so-good. I always sought out Bible-believing churches. Some churches I visited once, never to return. Despite some “bad apples” God’s church still stands. It will be here until we are all called home.

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All scripture is from then NASB unless otherwise indicated.

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As Christians we are called to give. In Malachi 3:10 (CEV) God has promised to bless those who give. “I am the Lord All-Powerful, and I challenge you to put me to the test. Bring the entire ten percent into the storehouse, so there will be food in my house. Then I will open the windows of heaven and flood you with blessing after blessing.” There are many instances in the Bible stating that we should not test God. This passage is unique as it is the only time God tells us to test Him. Unfortunately, the average Christian has not put God to this test. 

Coupled with the unique opportunity to test God is the promise of his blessings. We may feel that God has shortchanged us on this but recall that blessings come in many forms, not just monetary. To me, this says volumes. Are we willing to trust God to keep His promises?

A Lot of Debt. According to CNBC, Americans collectively owe $1.21 trillion (that’s with ten zeroes).  on credit card debt alone. The delinquency rate of credit cards is almost 7%. If all debt is included, personal debt soars to $18.39 trillion. Of that amount, approximately $12.94 trillion is mortgage debt. With prices increasing along with interest rates, the amount of debt continues to rise. I am not opposed to debt, the issue is excessive debt, as this can indicate serious spiritual issues. There are several signs you have excessive debt.  One, if your total monthly debt payments exceed 35 percent of your gross income. Two, you only pay the minimum each month. Three, you have trouble even making minimum payments.

The Bible and Money. The Bible has much to say about money. In Matthew 6:24 Jesus said  “No one can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and wealth.” Money can remove God as our source.

In Proverbs 22:7 Solomon, the wisest man who ever lived, wrote “The rich rules over the poor, and the borrower becomes the lender’s slave.” Debt is bondage.

In Hebrews 13:5 it is written “Make sure that your character is free from the love of money, being content with what you have; for He Himself has said, “I will never desert you, nor will I ever abandon you,” Money may change our focus away from God.

1 Timothy 6:10 tells us “For the love of money is a root of all sorts of evil, and some by longing for it have wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs.” Loving money leads to evil. Read these verses again, focusing on the consequences.

God Wants to Develop Us. There are four qualities that God wants us to possess. Each of these has an opposite from the world’s perspective. Our attitude toward money can help us develop these qualities.

  1. Freedom as opposed to bondage.
  2. Integrity as opposed to dishonesty.
  3. Faithfulness as opposed to unfaithfulness.
  4. Generosity as opposed to selfishness.

Let’s look at each of these and how they can impact our relationship with God. God wants us to have freedom. In John 8:32. Jesus stated “And you will know the Truth, and the Truth will set you free.” I use the AMPC version of the Bible as it capitalizes the word “Truth.” Jesus is The Truth and releases us to be free from bondage. Bondage to debt has spiritual consequences as we are not totally free.

Jesus was a man of perfect integrity. In Romans 8:29 Paul wrote that we are “to become conformed to the image of His Son” Although there are many aspects to integrity, I like the Merriam-Webster definition that reads “an unimpaired condition – soundness.” That describes God’s desire for us. Most relevant in this context is paying our debts. We sometimes get in so deep, can’t or won’t pay our debts. Our integrity has suffered.

A definition of faithfulness is “steadfast in affection or allegiance. possessing loyalty.” Steve Green sang of faithfulness “Oh, may all who come behind us find us faithful, may the fire of our devotion light their way, may the footprints that we leave lead them to believe and the lives we live inspire them to obey.” If we are indebted, we may compromise our faithfulness to God and others.

Finally, we are to be generous. “This has been defined as a willingness to give help or support, more than is usual or expected.  The world says “I’ve got mine. Get your own.” God says “give.” Recall how Jesus praised the widow giving her last mite. We give to our kids, our family, those we love. Shouldn’t we be generous with God?

Deeply in Debt. In the 1950’s Tennessee Ernie Ford sang Sixteen Tons, a song about a Kentucky coal miner. The lyrics express a feeling many people may have today.  “You load sixteen tons and what do you get? You get another day older and deeper in debt.” 

Let’s go back to the credit card debt of $1.21 trillion. Some of this debt was incurred to spur-of-the-moment purchases, motivated by an “I deserve it” mentality. In 2024 Americans donated $484.85 billion to charities. Of that amount 16.8% was given to religious organizations. That represents $56.63 billion. 

We all know that borrowing incurs interest charges. Although it is difficult to get exact numbers it is estimated that we paid $254 billion in 2024 for credit card interest. That is over half of the amount we gave to charities and about 450 percent more that was given to religious organizations.

God Has a Plan. God’s stewardship plan is not borne out of obligation but a relationship.  Leviticus 27:30 records when God established the tithe. “Now all the tithe of the land, of the seed of the land or of the fruit of the tree, is the Lord’s; it is holy to the Lord.” Note He is saying the tithe is the Lord’s. Give Him His due. The tithe is ten percent of our income. In Malachi 3:8 the prophet wrote “Would anyone rob God? Yet you are robbing Me! But you say, ‘How have we robbed You?’ In tithes and offerings.” He continues, assuring that God will be generous to those who tithe. Malachi 3:8 says “Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse.” The storehouse is your church. Support of other organizations should be above the tithe and are offerings.

Does God Lack? God obviously doesn’t need our tithe. In Psalm 50:10-12 we read “For every animal of the forest is Mine, The cattle on a thousand hills. I know every bird of the mountains, and everything that moves in the field is Mine. If I were hungry I would not tell you,  for the world is Mine, and everything it contains.” Tithing is God’s way of teaching us that He must be our first priority, and that generousity will develop Godly qualities in us. 

Even though everything is God’s, he has chosen to support His work on earth through gifts from the faithful. He could miraculously drop an amount of money into the offering plate of any church or organization He chose, but that is not His plan. It’s not about the money – it’s about developing us into mature Christians. Giving is an act of worship.

I am reminded of a dear saint I knew fifty years ago. His wife had passed away and her illness brought about a financial struggle. In a Deacons’ meeting one night, we individually decided to take up a collection among us to help Mr. Nelson. As I recall, we raised about $500, which was a lot in the 1970’s. At our next meeting the Chairman read a letter from Mr. Nelson in which he expressed his gratitude for the gift. Then he wrote “While my wife was ill, I had to reduce my tithe to 5%. Your gift has enabled me to restore to God the 5% that I withheld.” My prayer is that each of us develop that faithfulness.  

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Today I want to introduce you to a friend of mine, Robert Day. He states “My foster family called me Robbie, my relatives knew me as Bobby, and legally, I was Robert. I endured a childhood marked by deep generational poverty, abuse, and neglect. As an adult, I dedicated my career to understanding and transforming these experiences for other children. My journey has given me a compassionate and comprehensive, 360-degree perspective on orphan work – what the system refers to as child welfare.” Out of this background, he founded Recovering Orphan.

Robert is the first in what I hope is a series of guest bloggers who are reaching out to my readership, informing you of their non-profit ministry. For more information about Recovering Orphan go to https://recoveringorphan.org/ or email Robert at Rday@FIVE18.org.

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“Hi, everyone. My name is Robert Day. I am a 63-year-old recovering orphan. I’ve gone twelve days without feeling rejected, lonely, or unloved.” If this was a meeting of Orphans Anonymous, or OA, this is where you would say, “Welcome, Robert!” Of course, there’s no such thing as OA, but with as many anonymous orphans as we currently have in this world, perhaps there should be.

I was born an orphan; I grew up an orphan. In fact, I was the first child of fifteen orphans born to my two parents, who also were orphans. Throughout my childhood, I was treated as an orphan. I spent time in foster care and was rejected by my birth parents over and over again.

A parent’s rejection is probably the deepest and longest-lasting wound a child can suffer. Boy, did my mother do a number on me! Her lifetime of serial rejection—from my birth to her death—defrauded me of something most people take for granted: to live securely in the knowledge that your parents love you and have your back. My father is guilty as well, maybe more so, but for some reason my mother’s rejection hurt a whole lot more.

Thus, I have lived a good portion of my adult life carrying the wounds of an orphan. Though there has been substantial healing along the way, I still occasionally struggle to vanquish the natural consequences of my orphan injuries. In many ways, I still have an orphan spirit: feeling, among other ways, abandoned, angry, fearful, hopeless, worthless, mistrusting, and manipulated.

“But wait!” you might say. “You had two parents. How can you be an orphan?” It’s true, the word “orphan” conjures up images of children in uniforms, marching in lines, eating gruel in dank, dark Victorian or Great Depression-era orphanages. Like Oliver or Annie, but without the singing. Orphans are children whose parents die in war or of famine or plague, or children left by roadsides with a note pinned to their chests. It’s true, there was a time in this country when orphans were easily identifiable, carrying their shame like a badge. There also was little doubt or debate that these children needed services and care. Nor was it ever questioned that the Church—the Body of Christ—should take an active role in their care. Those once-visible orphans have been replaced by invisible ones.

Here’s the truth: Not every orphan is an orphan. And not everyone who is an orphan realizes they are one. Let me explain.
First and foremost, we must understand that the main issue at hand is vulnerability. A child, by nature, is vulnerable. Children who are missing parents—for whatever reason—experience another level of vulnerability altogether. Children come into the world, the procreation of two people—a man and a woman, a mother and a father—and are raised by a member of both sexes. They learn from and can, thereby, relate to both, as well as be blessed by both. That’s the ideal situation. Of course, not every child has the ideal situation.

Think of it like this: Growing up without one of your parents is like missing an arm or a leg. It doesn’t make you less of a person, but it does make it harder to navigate certain aspects of life without help.

Using three sources of authority, Orphan is defined here to be a minor child missing one or both parents.

The Bible—In the Scriptures, the words “orphan” and “fatherless” are interchangeable, meaning a child only needs the loss of one parent to be an orphan.

Orphanages—Children in these institutions were called orphans. Sometimes they were recorded as half-orphans or double orphans—even by state officials—in order to distinguish how many parents were absent. Approximately 85–95 percent of all children in the history of the orphan asylum movement had at least one living parent, usually the mother. From a biblical perspective, they were fatherless children.

UNICEF—An arm of the United Nations and their global partners, UNICEF has a similar system to that of the old orphanages. It defines an orphan as a child under 18 years of age who has lost one or both parents to any cause of death: Maternal orphan, a child whose mother has died. Paternal orphan, a child whose father has died. Double orphan, a child who has lost both parents.

So, what are the circumstances that make a child an orphan? UNICEF includes only death in their definition, but because vulnerability is at the center of our concern, we expand the causes to include nearly any circumstance where at least one parent is not involved in the life of the child. They include the seven D’s:
Death—self-explanatory
Desertion—abandonment
Dissolution—parental rights terminated
Detainment—long-term incarceration
Disappearance—whereabouts unknown
Disaffection—estrangement, alienation, apathy
Dysfunction—family impairment that results in neglect, abuse, or exploitation

The orphan spirit doesn’t care about what makes a child an orphan—legal, official, or otherwise. In fact, I would argue that a child who is missing a parent because of death—as terribly hard as that can be—is potentially in a better place emotionally than a child who has a living parent who is absent, or worse still, present and abusive. A child rejected by a living parent is deeply wounded in ways that a child who loses a parent by death is not.
Once you are open to this more-inclusive definition, you will suddenly see orphans everywhere. I venture to say there are more orphans in America today than we’ve ever had in our history, even during periods of war, disease, and economic turmoil.

Now that you’ve taken the first, crucial step in understanding who, or what, is an orphan, let’s define a widow. Like an orphan, a widow has become narrowly defined. It most commonly refers to an older woman whose husband has died. Certainly, those women should be seen and served as those who are vulnerable. However, in the Bible the word widow is almost always associated with the word orphan.

Remember, vulnerability is the concern of God in these verses. If a spouse has died, the surviving spouse is a widow, or if male, a widower. If this happens while their children are still young, we would call them orphans, and the Christian community would rightly rally around them.

Now, let’s expand the concept a little further. If a person—usually a woman—is the parent of an orphan, wouldn’t that make her a widow? This may be a bit more difficult to comprehend, or perhaps to accept, but it’s exactly why orphanages failed to properly serve the orphaned. They gladly received children into their institution, whose fathers were absent for whatever reason, but often did little to help the mothers. Their narrow definition overlooked the full will of God in those situations. If they had helped the widow—we call them single mothers today—her orphan children would automatically be the beneficiary of that help too. By serving only the orphan, orphanages neglected the most important need of their residents: family. If we can accept the broader and more historical definition of orphan, for practical reasons alone, we must then embrace the more inclusive definition of widow as well. It’s the very best way to help both.

OK, is your brain tired yet? Well, we can’t stop here. There’s one more thing to consider—one more step we need to take in our quest to grasp the full boundaries of the orphan universe.
If a child who grows up without a parent is an orphan, that doesn’t necessarily change once they become legal adults. For the rest of their lives, they will never have that parent. Yet, they’ll always carry the wound—an inner vulnerability, if you will. In other words, the limb is permanently missing. I call these adults “recovering orphans,” and like a recovering addict, no matter how old they become or how much healing they enjoy, they’re only a situation, a temptation, or a circumstance away from giving in to the old spirits of orphanhood.

The issue is no longer just about the vulnerability of a minor, but also the volatility of an adult.

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