If we want something done we often seek someone with an “In.” Want to change something in your city, who do we know that knows the Mayor? Access to someone in power is the world’s way of getting things done. Guess what? We have that kind of access to God. You might say “Why pray? God already knows what we want.” God wants us to ask. God hears our prayers. Sometimes they are misdirected and God doesn’t give us the answer we seek. Why not? Because he has something better in mind. He always answers. The answer may be “Yes,” “No,” or “Not yet.” Also, it may be “Yes, with some changes.” 

John 14:14 (NASB) reads “If you ask Me anything in My name, I will do it.” We often close our prayers “In Jesus name, Amen.” That isn’t a magic phrase we add to our prayer to make it come to be. Think about what it means to do something in someone’s name. When we invoke someone’s name we are saying that something is to be done with the authority of a specified person or thing. When we invoke Jesus’ name in our prayers  we are agreeing with Him that this prayer is in accordance with His nature and character. God would not grant a petition that is contrary to who He is. 

As we pray, we sometimes get a clearer view of what God wants. It is somewhat like a planning session. We start off in one direction, but as we progress we see that our original idea isn’t best. We may need to modify it. God may show us His modifications when we talk (and listen) to Him in prayer.

Sometimes we may be critical of others or feel uncomfortable ourselves in bringing a matter to God time and time again.  Some feel that we should bring it to God once. He has heard our prayer, now I’ll wait for the answer. It’s somewhat like the 60’s practice of calling the radio station with our song requests.  God is not there to take and fulfill our requests. He is there to listen to us and to talk to us. The interaction we get in prayer gives us clarity.  It is ok to continually bring a matter before the Lord in prayer. By continuing to talk with God about a matter, we see more clearly. 

As we pray and listen, our prayers change. As our prayers change, we change. When we pray we need to be prepared to be part of the answer. If God has placed a matter on your heart, He probably wants you to put feet to your prayers and work toward the answer you seek. 

I Thessalonians 5:16-18 (NASB) reads “Rejoice always; pray without ceasing; in everything give thanks; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus. Do not quench the Spirit” To pray without ceasing means to maintain an attitude of constant intercession.  Always in a state of prayer, always listening. Our failure to pray may mean we are quenching the Spirit. 

Prayer should never be a last resort, it should be our first step. Don’t take the attitude that you’ve tried everything else, I might as well try prayer. Internally, I cringed once in this regard. My church was embarking on some project, I don’t remember what it was. But our pastor was outlining the various tasks involved. Then he said “And if you can’t do anything else, you can pray.” I wanted to stand up and shout “NO NO NO!” Prayer is the first step, not something added as an afterthought. Not something left to those who can’t do anything else. 

Nothing is too insignificant to pray about. I remember when my father died, Gloria and I were driving to his home. On the way we had to stop and buy something. I don’t know why, but the parking lot was packed. I was tired and I was stressed. I uttered a silent prayer for a parking spot. Almost immediately I saw a woman walking to her car. She stopped and asked me if I was looking for a space. To this day I believe God sent her as an answer to my prayer.

Pray first, believe God will answer, and heed his response. 

What enables us to finish well in life? The answer is Jesus. He gets us. He understands us. Why?

Jesus was all man – he could touch people, he spoke with an accent, he could blend into a crowd. Yet he was all God – he could heal, he spoke with authority, he could change history. He has been remembered for over 2,000 years. All man. All God.

Jesus never sinned, but He understands our sin. He died for our sins so he feels them even more than we do. He was shamed, humiliated, treated like a sinner. He deserved none of that. But he experienced it. He became sin – every sin we have ever committed. He felt the guilt, remorse, and embarrassment that was ours—Jesus doesn’t condone our sin, but he understands it.

I would hasten to add that falling down does not mean we can’t finish well. It is what we do after we get up, pick up the pieces of our lives and move on.  In another race I was running, this one a 10K, I was tripped at the starting line when someone cut in front of me. I got up with a fiery determination and ran. Fast. Interestingly, I caught and passed the person who tripped me, and gave him a look. It was sort of a “you tripped me but I passed you” look.  Strangely, I did not see him at the finish line. But picking up the pieces isn’t automatic and it isn’t easy.

For those who seek Him, God restores us. Lamentations 3:22-23 (RSV) reads “The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases, his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is thy faithfulness.” Did you get that? We start each day new! Our lives don’t have to go on in the same way. There may be, should be, changes. 

I can get up from a fall in a race, but I can’t deal with my sin alone. “Jesus is the only one who can help. Let him. Jesus has the strength you do not have. He is, after all, your High Priest, able and willing to help in your time of need. So let him do what He came to do.”- Max Lucado. Jesus’ help isn’t automatic. His help may come from Him working through another individual, through a song or a sermon at just the right time, through a book we are reading. There is no limit to the ways God can work in our lives. Look for him. 

God is a God of second chances. He forgives us. Our focus should be on what we do with those second chances.

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Starting in the mid-1950’s and well into the current century, a fictional character by the name of Alfred E. Neuman graced the covers of MAD Magazine. His image became a national icon, along with his well known phrase, “What, Me Worry?”  Neuman’s line could well be adopted by Christians, as there is an abundance of instruction in the Bible about avoiding worry. Current medical knowledge backs up the Bible in this regard, as excessive worry has been shown to be detrimental to our physical and mental health. 

In Philippians 4:6-7 (NASB) we read “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”  Let’s unpack these verses and see what they are telling us. 

Anxiety is defined as a feeling of worry, nervousness, or unease, typically about an imminent event or something with an uncertain outcome. It is our body’s natural response to stress. So, stress is not necessarily bad. There are times we should be uneasy or nervous. But God provides a way to deal with it. Notice I said it is a natural response. As Christians we live supernaturally. Worry should have no control over us.

We are not to worry about anything. Think about that. Nothing is too small to give to God. Give him your worries, your concerns, anything. In times past, I have internally scoffed at prayer requests that some people make. But I was wrong. We can bring anything to God.

Why is worry a problem? It is not God’s ideal. Worrying goes beyond our minds and can affect the body. The list of physical ailments caused by worry is long and includes dizziness, dry mouth, fast heartbeat, fatigue, headaches, inability to concentrate, irritability, muscle aches, nausea, shortness of breath, sweating, trembling or twitching, suppression of our immune system, heart attack, short-term memory loss, depression, and suicidal thoughts. Proverbs 12:25 reads “Anxiety in a man’s heart weighs him down, but a good word makes him glad.” Why carry that extra burden? 

How do we deal with worry? This verse tells us to take it to God through prayers and petitions. We know what prayer is, but what are petitions in this context? A petition is a request made for something desired, especially a respectful or humble request, as to a superior or to one of those in authority. I don’t think the Bible is being redundant. All prayers are not petitions. As we talk to God in prayer, offer Him our petitions, but lift up prayers of thanksgiving, praise, and confession.

When we do this, God gives us His transcending peace. Not only do we get this marvelous gift of peace, we get a promise that he will guard our hearts and minds. Just stay focused on Christ. What if we slip back into worry? Don’t worry. Give you worry to God again.

In addition to His peace, God has given us some help to overcome worry. Daily meditation helps us keep worry at bay. Having a strong social network we can turn to; it always helps to share our burdens with other Christians. Exercise, healthy eating, learning to relax are also good coping mechanisms. Don’t deny your worries. Be conscious of them. If we are aware of our worries we can better deal with them. In severe cases, talk with your doctor or a therapist. These mechanisms do not deny the power of God to bring us peace, they facilitate it. Think of your physical body. When something goes wrong with our bodies, we take steps to correct the problem – medication, doctors, changes in our lifestyle. They are basically the same as worry. We take our physical ailments to God but we use the tools he has given us to overcome those ailments. It is the same with worry. God has given tools. Use them. But, in either case, pray first.

Isaiah 40:31 (NIV) reads “ those who hope [wait] in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.” Let’s soar! 

All of us have experienced what we call “The dark night of the soul.” Times when we feel like there’s no way out. Times when we don’t think things will ever be better. We are stuck in a rut of hard times, one bad thing happening after another. We wonder “Where is God?” And just when we think it’s over, we get hit again. Is there hope, or are we hopeless, like the song from the 60s – “Is That All There Is?” Peggy Lee sang this melancholy song about experiencing life’s disappointments. The chorus goes:

“Is that all there is, is that all there is

If that’s all there is my friends, then let’s keep dancing

Let’s break out the booze and have a ball

If that’s all there is.”

In other words, there is no purpose in life, let’s just keep on keeping on. 

Personally, I’ve had a rough six years. There have been times when I’ve shouted at God, pleaded with Him, begged for adversity to end. It still hasn’t ended. I’m looking for that coming joy. And I am certain it will come. 

There is hope in God. I am reminded of a line in a Steve Green song, “God and God alone will be the joy of our eternal home. He will be our one desire. Our hearts will never tire of God’s and God’s alone.” In Psalm 30 we read “Weeping may last for the night, But a shout of joy comes in the morning.” We don’t know when that morning will arrive, but we can know it’s coming. 

“Joy comes because Jesus comes. And if you don’t recognize His face, He will call your name. Your name is not buried in some heavenly file. God needs no name tag to jog His memory about you. He has said, ‘See, I have engraved you on the palms of my hands’ (Isaiah 49:16).” – Max Lucado. We don’t know why he tarries, but we KNOW. He. Will. Come.  You are everything to the God of the Universe.  

Thanks be to God, that’s not all there is. 

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Growing up in an Appalachian region, I frequently heard the term “out of kilter.” When someone is described as being out of kilter, something is wrong in their life. Kilter is defined as being in the proper state or condition. Thus, if we are out of kilter, something is wrong. As Christians, we are usually comfortable with the Father and Son aspects of the Trinity. It’s when we start talking about the Holy Spirit we become uncertain, even uncomfortable. Maybe to the point of being out of kilter.

We are told in Acts that we will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes upon us. The Holy Spirit is central to the life of the Christian. We sometime overlook the source of our spiritual gifts. Those gifts are bestowed by the HOLY SPIRIT. There is much debate in Christian circles about spiritual gifts. It is not our purpose here to debate them, but to acknowledge their presence in our lives. If you do a Google search, before you even scroll down you’ll see articles stating there are four, seven, or twelve different spiritual gifts. Another sources lists 17 – Administration, Apostle, Discernment, Evangelism, Exhortation, Faith, Giving, Healing, Helps, Hospitality, Knowledge, Leadership, Mercy, Prophecy, Serving, Speaking in tongues, Teaching, and Wisdom. It’s important to note that these are GIFTS. We can’t work to get a gift, we certainly can’t succeed in striving for all the gifts. They are given to help us minister and live out our faith. Each of us is uniquely gifted for a role in God’s Kingdom.

Likewise we overlook the evidence of the Holy Spirit in our lives – the fruit of the SPIRIT. The fruit of the SPIRIT is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Note that these fruits are said to grow in our lives. Just like real fruit they take time to grow, they don’t spring up automatically. And they are likely hierarchical starting with love. If I decide to take up cooking, I am not immediately a five-star chef. I start with simple dishes and, hopefully, progress toward becoming a better cook. That’s sort of how the fruit of the spirit works.

We should look for evidence of the fruit in our lives. If things just don’t seem right, we may be out of kilter.

Prayer. As Christians, it is something we practice, something we believe in, something that has great power. We pray because we know that God hears our prayers and wants to answer them. Prayer unlocks potential. Anyone who knows me, knows that I believe in and practice prayer. When someone asks me to pray for them it is my practice to lift up a prayer immediately.  Yet, all too frequently, our prayers become mindless incantations devoid of power and purpose.  I submit to you that there are at least four kinds of useless prayers. 

The first useless prayer is a prayer for God’s presence. In Hebrews 13:5 we read (NIV) “Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.” Forsake means to renounce or give something up.  God has promised He will always be there for us, He will not give up on us. So it is useless to pray for God to be with us – he is already here.  

Instead of praying for His presence we should be praying for an awareness of His presence.  As someone once said, “If God seems far away, guess who moved.” God is always present. What is needed is an awareness in our lives that He is there. We are human. That means we are not perfect, so there will be times in our lives when God seems distant. But He is always there, always for us.

The second useless prayer is a prayer for mercy.  This prayer implies that God may or may not want to give mercy. But He has bestowed abundant mercy on us through Jesus Christ. What greater mercy than the laying down of a life for me? 

We should pray, instead for a removal of the barriers that keep us from fully experiencing God’s mercy. Michael W. Smith sings a song “Lord Have Mercy,” which would seem to negate my argument.  But as we examine the words, the song is a plea that God remove the barriers to us receiving God’s mercy:

 Jesus, I’ve forgotten the words that You have spoken

Promises that burned within my heart have now grown dim

With a doubting heart I follow the paths of earthly wisdom.

Forgive me for my unbelief

Renew the fire again

I have built an altar where I worship things of men

I have taken journeys that have drawn me far from You

Now I am returning to Your mercies ever flowing

Pardon my transgressions

Help me love You again.

Lord have mercy

Christ have mercy

Lord have mercy on me.

The third useless prayer is one petitioning God to give us peace. In John 14:27, Jesus is giving the disciples His “farewell” speech. He states (NIV) “Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.” God has granted us peace. Similar to not feeling God’s presence, we don’t feel His peace when obstacles get in our way of feeling God’s special, perfect peace. 

The fourth useless prayer is one that we have the means within us to answer that prayer. Prayer is not only a means of asking God to act, it is also a means of asking God to give us opportunities to act. Prayer is the first step, but it is not the final step. We pray as we move into action. It is somewhat like the parable of the rich young ruler. He came to Jesus seeking eternal life. You might say he was praying about it. Jesus told him what needed to be done. Verse 22 of Matthew 19 is probably one of the saddest verses in the Bible. (NIV) “But when the young man heard that saying, he went away sorrowful, for he had great possessions.” He asked Jesus for eternal life but was unwilling to take the steps necessary to achieve it. 

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I wear a mask. I don’t like them, they cause my glasses to fog up, they create issues with my hearing aids, they make it difficult to breathe. Legally I can claim a medical condition to exempt me. I’m not even sure how effective they are. So why do I wear one? In I Corinthians, Paul declared his freedom in Christ, yet said he made himself servant to all. Basically he was declaring a desire that he not be a stumbling block to someone’s path to salvation. “I have become all things to all men.” Not wishy-washy but committed to do what he could to save all.

Obviously, wearing or not wearing a mask is not a condition of Christianity. But, as Christians we say we love our fellow human beings. Wearing a mask can be a step we take to show we care. And it’s not something we should argue about when someone disagrees. You don’t wear a mask, I’m not going to berate you, give you 99 reasons why you should. That’s your choice and even if I disagree with you, I still love you.

I think Paul would wear a mask.