I saw a question posed the other day that asked ”What is it that you have always wanted?” This led me to do some thinking. As I mulled over my answer to that question, I realized that having all the money you could ever want was not the answer. Here in the United States, we are a prosperous nation, yet there is a great deal of personal dissatisfaction. Recently, the United States ranked as the 23rd happiest country in the world, but was 7th in Gross Domestic Product per capita. As I compiled my list, I realized anew that the most important things are not objects or experiences, but relationships.

My list includes a number of accomplishments that I have achieved. I have obtained a doctoral degree, I have run two marathons in under four hours, I have seen many of my favorite artists perform live, on stage, I have attended a New Year’s Day Bowl game, I’ve been to game seven of a Stanley Cup series (and saw my team win), I have two children and three grandchildren that I can be proud of, I have been blessed to be married to two fantastic women. I have published some books, I have obtained a CPA (and other professional certifications), I did own a convertible, an old beaten-up Karmann Ghia.

As impressive as that list may seem, there are a number of things that I have not accomplished. I would like to take a cruise to the Panama Canal. I’ve tried three times but have had my plans fall through every time. I scheduled a trip to Australia and COVID canceled that for me. There are other places in the world I haven’t seen although I would like to. I’ve owned a Thunderbird but not a Jaguar. I’ve never been up in a hot air balloon. I’ve not attended a World Series game or an NCAA Football National Championship game. I’ve always wanted to be in Boston on July 4 for the Boston Pops Concert.

I am fortunate that I have had many wonderful experiences and possessions during my years on earth, but the only thing that is really important is my salvation in Jesus Christ. As Paul wrote in II Corinthians 4:18 (NASB) “while we look not at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen; for the things which are seen are temporal, but the things which are not seen are eternal.” Everything on earth, the good, the bad, and the ugly will pass away. Any good we have seen on earth will be far surpassed by what is to come. Our sufferings on earth will be forgotten. We will dwell forever in a place of unimaginable beauty.

Someone might say that God’s word is not true. After all, Philippians 4:19 (NASB) says “And my God will supply all your needs according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus.” At this point we need to make a distinction between needs, wants, and desires. A need is a requirement, something we must have if we are to survive and function in a reasonable manner. Things such as food, water, clothing, shelter, and safety. A basic meal is a need. A want tends to go beyond the physical basics and into our preferences. A well-prepared full-fledged meal is a want. We often ask our loved ones at what restaurant they would like to celebrate their birthday. “I want to have a good steak.” might be the reaction here. Finally, we get into desires. Our desires tend toward the emotional. ”I’d like to go to Bern’s Steakhouse. I am retiring and want to celebrate the occasion in style.”

There is nothing wrong with any of these. We are human and God placed in us a search for needs, wants, and desires. But we must not focus on the wants and desires to the point where we become indulgent. Many people today are “entitled,” believing themselves to be inherently deserving of privileges or special treatment. Such individuals feel deserving and think the world revolves around them. What we must do is to not lose sight of what is a need, a want, or a desire. When we get caught up in pursuing our wants and desires, we may think of them as needs and lose focus on what is actually important.

Before we go further, I can hear someone saying “but there are millions of people in the world who do not have even the most basic needs.” That is true and I don’t discount that fact. But we live in an imperfect world. When (and if) we die and go to Heaven, all of our needs will be met. Meanwhile those of us who have been abundantly blessed need to work to meet basic needs here on earth.

Someone else might say to me that John 15:7 says that Jesus promised us to ask whatever we wish and it will be done for us. He did say that, sort of. His preface to that statement was “If you remain or abide in Me…” To abide or remain in Jesus means that we are so attuned to Christ that we live in Him, fully attaching ourselves to Him. If we abide in Christ, we would not ask for something that is not in His will. We ask, knowing what would please Him and He will provide. James 4:3 reads “You ask and do not receive, because you ask with the wrong motives, so that you may spend what you request on your pleasures.” This is not easy. We are all human, we all sin, so we may ask for the wrong reasons and not receive what we sought.

One of my favorite Christian artists is Andrew Peterson. He often brings to his songs an account of his frailties. In the song “Faith to be Strong,” he writes:

Give us faith to be strong
Give us strength to be faithful
This life is not long, but it’s hard
Give us grace to go on
Make us willing and able
Lord, give us faith to be strong

I think Peterson might have been thinking about what Peter wrote in I Peter 1:4-9 God gives us “an inheritance which is imperishable and undefiled and will not fade away, reserved in heaven for you, who are protected by the power of God through faith for a salvation ready to be revealed in the last time. In this you greatly rejoice, even though now for a little while, if necessary, you have been distressed by various trials, so that the proof of your faith, being more precious than gold which is perishable, even though tested by fire, may be found to result in praise and glory and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ; and though you have not seen Him, you love Him, and though you do not see Him now, but believe in Him, you greatly rejoice with joy inexpressible and full of glory, obtaining as the outcome of your faith the salvation of your souls.”

God has offered us something permanent and more wonderful than anything here on earth. Are you anticipating God welcoming you into His Heaven? What more could we want?

 

Jesus was born of a virgin in a manger in Bethlehem. At Christmas, we celebrate the birth of the King. It was indeed a miraculous event as Jesus entered our world as one of us. With one exception – he was God’s son and came that we might be redeemed from our sins. But too often we leave Jesus in Bethlehem. To me, that’s like going to a theatrical presentation and leaving after the first act. But there is more.

Act I – Jesus Was Born and Lived Among Us

Jesus’ birth is well-documented in the Gospels.  The star appeared, Angels visited the shepherds in the fields, the wise men followed the star to find Jesus.  On the eighth day, Mary and Joseph took Jesus to the Temple for purification. While there, Simeon and Anna appeared and testified of the fulfillment of prophecy in the birth of Jesus. This, we are told, amazed Mary and Joseph. But I think it likely confirmed or reminded them of who Jesus was.

We know that Mary, Joseph, and Jesus later fled to Egypt to escape the wrath of Herod, who was intent on killing the “imposter” to his throne. In order to accomplish this, several miracles occurred. The wise men were warned in a dream, and went back another way, rather than reporting to Herod. Joseph had a dream where an angel appeared and warned him to “Get up! Take the Child and His mother and flee to Egypt, and stay there until I tell you; for Herod is going to search for the Child to kill Him.” (Matthew 2:13 NASB)

We are told that, upon returning to Nazareth, Jesus continued to grow and became strong, increasing in wisdom. Jesus was known as a carpenter, so it is likely that he worked with Joseph in the shop. God’s favor on Him was said to be evident. 

At the age of 12, Jesus went to the Feast of the Passover with his earthly parents. Mary And Joseph lost him and finally found Him in the Temple, listening to the teachers and asking them questions. Mary scolded him, but He replied “Why is it that you were looking for Me? Did you not know that I had to be in My Father’s house?” (Luke 2:50 NASB). He was aware of who He was and of His mission on earth.

Beyond that, we know little of Jesus’ first 30 years on earth.  I think there are a couple of reasons for this. First, priests officially entered service at age 30  (Numbers 4:3). So, he was keeping with tradition. Secondly, I think Jesus used this time to “be one of us,” to experience life as a human being, having human feelings and emotions.

To leave Jesus in His youth, we are missing the rest of the play. If we don’t stay for the ending, we are not receiving the fullness of Jesus and will celebrate only His birth. 

Act II Jesus’ Ministry and Crucifixion 

Jesus’ ministry was controversial to say the least. While He healed the sick and performed other signs and wonders, this was not His primary purpose. He came to preach the Truth. Jesus is the Truth. As we read in John 8:32 (NASB) “and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” Healing and other miracles were good things, but if these recipients rejected the gospel, they were not done any ultimate good. One might think that He did these as attention getters. “See, I am the Son of God and I can do great things.” But that is not the case. He frequently told those who were healed to tell no one about it. I think this was because the news would spread of his ability to perform miracles and hinder His gospel ministry, the primary reason for coming to earth. The focus was the healing ministry of salvation. Obviously, word spread about these miracles, and his compassion compelled Him to help people.

 

Jesus’ focus on earth was the teaching of the disciples, so that His message would live on. In John 17 where Jesus prayed His high priestly prayer, he prayed, “Just as You sent Me into the world, I also sent them into the world. And for their sakes I sanctify Myself, so that they themselves also may be sanctified in truth. I am not asking on behalf of these alone, but also for those who believe in Me through their word (vv. 17-20 NASB). Shortly thereafter, He was crucified. But three days later, he arose again, an event we celebrate each year. 

But if you leave Jesus here, you will miss the grand finale of our play.

Act III – The Ascension and Exaltation

After His resurrection, Jesus spent 40 days on earth, making appearances to a number of His followers. He was using this time to encourage those who were already “His,” not an attempt to convert more to the truth of the gospel. At the end of 40 days, he visibly ascended into heaven. After He ascended, the disciples were “gazing intently into the sky while He was going, then behold, two men in white clothing stood beside them, and they said, ‘Men of Galilee, why do you stand looking into the sky? This Jesus, who has been taken up from you into heaven, will come in the same way as you have watched Him go into heaven.’” (Acts 1:10-11 NASB). 

Jesus’ ministry did not end with his ascension. The disciples returned to Jerusalem, probably a little bewildered. They, along with others, retreated to the upper room, devoting themselves to prayer. 

Suddenly, something Jesus told His followers would happen came to fruition – the helper Jesus promised came to them in the form of the Holy Spirit. Jesus had ascended into Heaven, and took His place at the right hand of God. As Paul records in Phillippians 2:5-11 “Christ Jesus, who, as He already existed in the form of God, did not consider equality with God something to be grasped, but emptied Himself by taking the form of a bond-servant and being born in the likeness of men. And being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself by becoming obedient to the point of death: death on a cross. For this reason also God highly exalted Him, and bestowed on Him the name which is above every name, so that at the name of Jesus EVERY KNEE WILL BOW, of those who are in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and that every tongue will confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.” Jesus will return again as an exalted, conquering hero – Lord of the earth.”

That is the grand finale of our play. We could say there is an encore that is still in progress. You can join Jesus Christ in Heaven for all eternity. Are you ready to welcome the Lord at His return in all His glory? 

The word wisdom carries with it a number of meanings, but it seems to me that many of them miss the mark. The Merriam-Webster Dictionary states that wisdom “implies sense and judgment far above average.” It uses insight, common sense, knowledge and judgment in defining the word. We see a focus on worldly wisdom which is more concerned with pleasing oneself. These characteristics may result from education, getting ahead in this world (rat race), or other externalities.
None of this addresses Godly wisdom. This type of wisdom comes from God only and seeks to honor Him. I John 2:15-16 reads “Do not love the world nor the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes and the boastful pride of life, is not from the Father, but is from the world” (NASB) The author here is contrasting the things of God with earthly values and not settling for the lesser. Love of the world and love of God are incompatible – we cannot have both.

The Bible has much to say about wisdom, and Proverbs makes many references to wisdom. But our starting point must be James 1:5 “But if any of you lack wisdom, you should pray to God, who will give it to you; because God gives generously and graciously to all” (NASB). To get wisdom we must pray for it and God will grant our prayers. He gives it to all generously and graciously. Obviously, our prayer must be sincere and with the right motives, not just one more trophy to place on our shelf of accomplishments.

One sign we don’t have Godly wisdom is if we brag about how wise we are. Proverbs 16:16 indicates our focus “How much better it is to get wisdom than gold! And to get understanding is to be chosen above silver” (NASB). I recall a discussion with another professing Christian. In our group discussion, he commented that pride was not a problem for him. He was always boasting about his accomplishments. In my judgment, he was one of the most prideful men I knew. His “wisdom” was apparently not Godly.

How will we recognize Godly wisdom in our lives and in the lives of others? There are at least six characteristics we can observe in a person possessing Godly Wisdom. Let’s examine these characteristics.

  1. It starts with a fear of the Lord. Proverbs 1:7 tells us “ The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge; Fools despise wisdom and instruction” (NASB). The Amplified Bible describes fear of the Lord as reverent, worshipful, and regarding God as awesome. Fools are regarded as closed-minded, over-confident, and unteachable. I recall a high school basketball player who had a great deal of talent. The town was excited when he committed to play for the local college team. However, he did not excel in college. It was apparent that he was uncoachable. Godly speaking he lacked wisdom.
  2. God gives wisdom to those with whom He is pleased. Ecclesiastes 2:26 reads “For to a person who is good in His sight, He has given wisdom and knowledge and joy.” Not only does he give wisdom – knowledge and joy are included! Note that not all obtain wisdom as they do not ask God for it in sincerity. We please God when we walk in the Spirit.
  3. The Christian with wisdom will love life. Proverbs 19:8 reads “One who gets wisdom loves his own soul” (NASB). If a person loves his soul, he will also be someone who loves life. Someone with Godly wisdom will radiate it by their love.
  4. Proverbs 19:20 reads “Listen to advice and accept discipline, so that you may be wise the rest of your days.” (NASB) Listening to advice can be difficult. Notice that it does not say accept the advice. We should listen and evaluate the advice being given. One part of wisdom is knowing when to follow advice and when to reject it.
    Accepting discipline can be difficult but it can lead to improvements in our life. I remember when I started writing for an academic publisher, I was assigned an editor. Having never worked with an editor, I was somewhat resentful at first. After working with her, I realized that her suggestions were improving my writing and the finished product. The wise man accepts advice and discipline.
  5. The wise man or woman will be full of grace. Colossians 4:5-6 tells us to “Conduct yourselves with wisdom toward outsiders, making the most of the opportunity. Your speech must always be with grace, as though seasoned with salt, so that you will know how you should respond to each person” (NASB). Two things in these verses jump out at me. First, we are to make the most of the opportunity. An opportunity has been described as a flower. It blossoms in beauty, but quickly fades. We are to make good use of the time we have been given. Don’t waste our time on sinful things of the world. When we act in this fashion, we will be filled with God’s grace. People will see God in us as we conduct ourselves with grace. Grace has been described as undeserved favor. God has bestowed grace on us, it is imperative that we serve as a conduit for grace. A graceful person will seek to build others up in gentleness and respect.
  6. Finally, if we have God’s wisdom, that will be a sign of our righteousness. Psalm 37:30 tells us “The mouth of the righteous utters wisdom, and his tongue speaks justice. People will see God in us. That, to me, is the crowning achievement. If by my words and actions, people see God in me, then I will probably someday hear the words from God “Well done, good and faithful servant.” Matthew 25:23 goes on to tell us that we will share the joy of the Master.

The thing about wisdom is that you never “arrive.” You can always advance along the “wisdom scale.” Stop for a moment and consider where you are on that scale. But not just where you are on that scale, but in which direction you are going. Grace is an essential part of God’s character. How well do you reflect God’s grace in your life?

 

It is sometimes difficult for us to determine God’s will. God deals with each of us differently, so one person’s experience may not be the same as that of another. I am certainly no expert on God’s will so this is mostly a recounting of God working with me over my lifetime. As I see it, one of our main issues in seeking God’s will is that our will is present and we want God’s will to match what we want.

In Luke 5, Jesus was teaching the crowds and commandeered Simon’s fishing boat. After he finished teaching, he told Simon “Put out into the deep water and let down your nets for a catch.” He had been fishing all night and Jesus told him to cast the nets once more. Simon, the professional in this story, responded “Master, we worked hard all night and caught nothing, but I will do as You say and let down the nets.” Simon at this point was not a disciple of Jesus, but after protesting, he did what Jesus told him to do. At this point, I somewhat envy Simon. Face-to-face with Jesus, he did what Jesus said. There was no question in his mind about following Jesus’ instructions. Wouldn’t it be simple to have Jesus physically speaking to us, telling us what to do?

While I do not put down anyone’s experience with trying to discern God’s will, I am always somewhat suspicious when someone starts a conversation, saying “God told me…” I have known many people whose supposed words from God did not come about. We must, however, be flexible in how we respond to God’s perceived will.

When I was in high school, I was seeking to determine what my major in college would be. I happened to read an article about CPAs and the work of an accountant. At this point in my life, I did not know what a CPA was. But the article piqued my interest. I soon knew without a doubt that my major should be accounting. My senior year in high school, I took a bookkeeping course and I knew I was on the right track. I never wavered from that belief. My career did not turn out as I envisioned, but I was always involved professionally in the field of accounting. I believe God planned for me to read that article.

While in college, I sort of fell into becoming a journalist, first as Sports Editor for my college newspaper and later as Editor of the paper. I came from a long line of journalists (My grandfather founded a local newspaper that thrived for years and the whole family was involved in the business). I found out that I enjoyed writing and was pretty good at it. While in college I also had some sports articles published in the Asheville newspaper. But my writing took a backseat to my accounting career and it was neglected for years. In retrospect, I see that it was God’s hand leading me into writing.

Sometimes God speaks to us through other people. I met my first wife, Gloria while in college. Unbeknownst to me, she told her roommate that she was going to marry me. We were friends, but didn’t date at that point. After two years, she transferred to nursing school. We corresponded some, and she asked to be placed on the mailing list for the College newspaper of which I was the editor. She came back to campus to visit some friends and we got back together. We started dating and ended up being married for over 48 years. I’ve always been suspicious about the circumstances of that visit to her friends.

After college, I was employed in a variety of accounting jobs. One Sunday morning I sat beside a friend at church. We struck up a conversation and he mentioned that he needed an accountant to teach in the evening program of the local technical school. I asked about it, and he encouraged me to submit an application, which I did. He told me that he had found an accountant but to submit my application, as he was always needing an accountant. About half-way through the next semester, he called and told me his accounting teacher had been transferred to another city. Could I take over the class? I figured this was a great opportunity. If I did not do well, I could blame it on the fact that I did not start the semester and save face. I loved it and my students were very receptive. It did not take me long to realize I needed to be in teaching. I had no idea if I was qualified to teach in college, so I contacted Fred Bentley, President of Mars Hill College and sought his advice. He was very encouraging and gave me some tips on how to get a job. I would add that my years on the college newspaper put me in frequent touch with the President and we had become friends.

Fast forward a few years. Gloria bought me a book by Max Lucado entitled Cure for the Common Life. This book turned out to be transformational. In reading the book, I realized that writing was one of my callings, so I vowed to start writing again. I began writing academic articles related to accounting and was somewhat successful, having several articles published. I was also given the opportunity to write tax articles for the Polk County Business Journal. The writing enhanced my career as an academic and I found that I enjoyed it. I also was a frequent blogger for an online accounting site and also wrote my own blog “The TaxDoc Spot.”

In addition to teaching I also had a tax preparation business. As I approached retirement from academia, it occurred to me that I could begin a new line of business, giving seminars and consulting on the subject of church and clergy taxes. I prayed, consulted with a number of people and started Church Tax Solutions. This was an instance where I think my will overrode God’s. Although this was a good idea, it never got off the ground. In retrospect, I now see that I would need to devote time to caring for Gloria as her physical condition declined. In a related vein, I retired from academia just prior to Gloria needing me more.

After Gloria passed away, I realized that I don’t do well alone, so I started dating. Just as I was about to give up finding anyone, Heather walked into my life. The moment I saw her, I felt God telling me that we would marry. I did not tell her this at the time. But as things progressed, it turned out that marriage was God’s will and we are more certain of that every day.

I finally gave up my tax practice after much prayer and fasting. I never thought I would so willingly walk away from it, as it was something I loved. But God showed me it was time, and I do not miss my tax work.

I was no longer a professor, no longer a tax preparer. So what was next? As I contemplated this question, I realized a desire to write again. About this time, a friend who has a blog site invited me to publish on his site. This was different from my prior writing as I decided to write a faith-based blog. So that’s what occupies my time now. I enjoy it and hope that others can learn and be inspired by my musings.
We must never lose sight of the fact that God’s will for you will not contradict His Divine Nature. Ultimately He seeks:

  1. Advancement of His kingdom. Daniel 2:44 “the God of heaven will set up a kingdom which will never be destroyed, and that kingdom will not be [a]left for
    another people; it will crush and put an end to all these kingdoms, but it will itself endure forever.”
  2. Salvation of His children through Jesus. II Peter 3:9 “The Lord is patient toward you, not willing for any to perish, but for all to come to repentance.
  3. For us to do His work on earth. Eph 2:10 “We are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand so that we would walk in them.”

Over the years, as you can see, God has led me in many ways, not always by speaking to me. Sometimes when I wasn’t even seeking Him. What I have learned is summed up in Matthew 6:33 “But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be provided to you.” When God is first in our lives, he will guide us abundantly. What place does God have in your life?

In a recent blog, I dealt with the topic of worship and how worship changes you. J. W. Tozer has said that worship is the missing jewel in evangelical circles. Tozer received his heavenly crown in 1963, so his observation is at least 60 years old. But I believe it is still true today. 

We often refer to what we do on Sunday morning as “going to church.” I submit that going to church and worshiping are not necessarily the same thing.  Worship is transformational, it changes us.  We can attend  “church” services and not come away changed. 

The difference, I think, is in our view of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. What is missing in our attempts at worship? If we do not have a high, exalted view of God, we aren’t worshiping. I recall one occasion when my grandmother was preparing a meal which included her signature squash casserole. Those at the table complimented her on the meal but she felt that something was missing. As she went to clean up the kitchen, she realized she had not put the squash in the casserole. It was good, but it was not what it was intended to be. It was missing a key ingredient. Just like my grandmother’s recipe, there are ingredients that make up worship. If any of these are missing, it is not the real thing.

I think the first ingredient is praise. We can have praise for something without worshiping. But we cannot worship without praising. For example, Steve Jobs was a brilliant individual. I have a high regard for what he accomplished at Apple. But I don’t praise or worship him. Worship is praise carried to infinity. Our worship is unending. Only God is worthy of that worship, but do we praise Him as He deserves?  

The second ingredient is honor. The dictionary defines honor as “high respect or esteem.” We tend to honor people for their accomplishments. Excellent students are referred to as honor students, we honor someone for a great achievement or action. And there is nothing wrong with honoring deserving individuals or groups. But we must honor God, as we cannot worship that which we do not honor.

Passion or mystery is the third ingredient in worship. Passion is described as a “strong and barely controllable emotion.” When we have a Godly passion our human minds cannot comprehend the fullness of God. In relation to God, our passion should be infinite. If we are not passionate about God, if He doesn’t evoke a sense of awe and wonder we cannot worship Him.

Love or adoration is the fourth ingredient. We cannot worship if we don’t love. Adoration is deep love or respect, love taken to the highest level. When we are “in love” our love should be growing. A frequent saying on Valentine’s Day cards goes something like “I love you more today than yesterday, and less than I will tomorrow.” We love God with everything that is within us as it grows daily. 

Worship cannot be half-hearted. I can remember many times in my life when I looked around at the assembled congregation in a church and felt “I hope this is not what Heaven is. They all sound so bored and even apathetic.”  To combine a couple of current expressions we must be “all in” and “all the time” in our worship.”  Our lives, fully immersed in the glory and wonder of God. In Matthew 22, Jesus was asked what is the greatest commandment. His reply “You shall  love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.”   When this happens, you can experience worship.  As individual believers and as a church, we need to regain a vision of the Most High God.

Are any of these ingredients missing in your worship? How do you view God? Does your worship change you?

Christians are familiar with the concept of the Trinity –  the unity of Father, Son, and Holy Spirit as three persons in one Godhead. After all, this doctrine is one of the central Christian affirmations about God. Yet, theologian A. W. Tozer wrote “We have higher-than-earthly royalty—we have the Lord of lords and the King of kings—we have the blessed Holy Spirit present, and we are treating Him as if He were not present at all.” A recent survey indicated that, while 69 percent of Americans self-identify as Christian but only  58 percent of this group believe the Holy Spirit is not real but is merely a symbol. 

However, scripture says the exact opposite. In Acts 5:3, Peter says that Ananais has lied to the Holy Spirit but in verse 5, he says that Ananais has lied to God. In I Corinthians 2:11 Paul says the Spirit of God knows the thoughts of God. And in Matthew 28:19 Jesus says that His followers are to baptize and make disciples of the “Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.” These passages, and others indicate that the Holy Spirit is indeed God and is real. These do not indicate that the Spirit is a different person than God. John 15:26 indicates that the Spirit of Truth goes out from the Father. To go out would indicate that there is a distinction between God the Father and the Spirit.

The Spirit is very much a person. Ephesians 4:30 says “Do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption.”  Being  grieved indicates personhood. As individuals, we are grieved over many things – the loss of a loved one, a personal or professional failure, rejection from others, just to mention a few. How do we grieve the Spirit? This is by no means a comprehensive list but we resist Him, insult Him,  disobey Him, quench Him, and deny Him. That would grieve anyone.

I think part of our problem with the concept of the Holy Spirit is that the Bible often makes indirect references to the Holy Spirit. He is called Dove, Comforter, Intercessor, Paraclete, Presence of God, Spirit, Spirit of God, Spirit of Truth. It sometimes becomes difficult to note all the references to the Holy Spirit as we may breeze over the words and not realize the scripture is referring to the Third Person of the Godhead – the Holy Spirit.  

The Holy Spirit was sent by God as our Counselor (John 14:26).  A dictionary definition of counselor is “a person trained to give guidance on personal, social, or psychological problems.” While this is a secular definition, it indicates what the Spirit can do for us as our Counselor. A Biblical counselor is described as one who strives to relate the counselee not to him/herself to bring about healing, but to Jesus Christ and his Truth that sets men free. I am reminded of the section of Handel’s Messiah quoting Isaiah 9 – For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.” In this one passage we see the Trinity.

As Counselor, what does the Holy Spirit do? Again, quoting from Tozer “He has come to comfort. He has come to teach. He is the Spirit of instruction. He has come to bring light, for He is the Spirit of light. He comes to bring purity, for He is the Spirit of holiness. He comes to bring power, for He is the Spirit of power.” When we call on the Spirit, we are not imposing. God wants to do this for His people. He doesn’t ask what denomination we are, how long we have been a follower. He asks that we be willing to obey and listen. As Christians, we need to discover, or rediscover that the Holy Spirit is real and want to be a part of our lives.

Take a few minutes of reflection, contemplation, and prayer. How have you grieved the Holy Spirit? He will empower you to listen and obey Him.

There is no doubt that we are creatures of habit. We get into a routine, maybe even a rut and we continue along that path. But sometimes we want to get out of that rut and make improvements or changes in our lives. Unfortunately, we generally do not do well in this regard. We make New Year’s Resolutions about what we want to change in our lives, maybe in the form of goals for what we wish to accomplish during the new year. Before long we usually fall back into our old habits.

I am not a big fan of New Year’s Resolutions. I believe that if I see something in my life that needs changing, why wait until January 1 to start implementing those changes? If you do a Google search on New Year’s Resolutions, you will find list after list of suggested resolutions. I don’t like these lists. While they may be somewhat helpful in identifying some areas needing improvement, I think that I (or a close friend or relative) know better than anyone else where I need to make improvements. 

There are keys to helping you achieve your goals. I would offer five important steps in regard to achieving resolutions

  1. Plan – Make your resolutions specific and have a plan on how to achieve the goal.
  2. Limit – Don’t try to tackle too much change. Too much, and you might get overwhelmed and do a “crash and burn.” Maybe undertake one goal at a time. Add more goals as you progress. You don’t have to finish one before starting another. 
  3. Accountability – Have an accountability partner who will help keep you on track. It also helps to keep a journal to see how far you have come.
  4. Process – Remember that achieving a goal is a process, it won’t happen overnight. If weight loss, for example, is your goal, it took time to put on the extra weight, It will take time to lose it.
  5. Adapt – Don’t be so rigid that you don’t make adjustments to the goals when necessary. This will entail a periodic review of how you are progressing toward your goal.

Part of developing habits is to become more proficient at a task. Being regular in the habits of life is a good quality to establish. If you want to run a 10K road race, you will need to train, to regularly hit the roads so you can run the distance and run well. If you are trying to lose weight, it is not something you can casually pursue. You must be faithful in your diet and exercise routine to improve your health and well-being. Habits can be good or bad. It is good that I exercise, to keep my body healthy. However, a drug habit can be destructive. 

But good habits are for more than our earthly existence. I Timothy 4:8 tells us “for bodily training is just slightly beneficial, but godliness is beneficial for all things, since it holds promise for the present life and also for the life to come.”

The habits of a holy life is one area in which Christians should become a regular part of their lives. This world, and our lives are made for regularity. There is a growing season for crops. Birds fly south in the fall. We can predict the tides, the rising and the setting of the sun. June – November is hurricane season in Florida. 

Regularity in the habits of the holy life should be cultivated. Bible study, prayer, giving, and church attendance are all a part of learning from the Holy Spirit how to be dependable, faithful, unselfish, and Christlike. 

I remember vividly the events of September 11, 2001. I was in my office at school, preparing for a class when I began seeing news reports of the attack. As a result of that event, many people prayed and attended church. Alas, the newfound religiosity was short-lived for many as most returned to their previous habits. With the help of the Holy Spirit our lives can become holy (wholly) regular. 

In reading the Old Testament, one can readily see how regularity is ordained by God. There are detailed procedures for the priests in the temple. Even the Genesis account of the Creation indicates that God’s creation was brought about in an orderly manner. I Corinthians 14:40 reads “Let all things be done decently and in order.” God obviously gives great value to order and regularity. 

Why not make time to evaluate your habits, especially Holy Habits.

If you ask the average Christian “What did Christ do for you?” you will likely get a response that reflects the sentiment that He saved me from my sins. Yes, that is true, in part. Ron Popeil was known for his attention-grabbing line toward the end of his infomercials “But wait…there’s more!” And there is more to Jesus’ sacrifice.

We are all fallen beings, Adam’s sin is known as the fall. At that point the transition of the first man and woman from a state of innocent obedience to God to a state of guilty disobedience happened. We became a fallen human race. As sinful beings, we needed help. From a human view, you could say that God switched from a failed Plan A to a backup Plan B. But I don’t think that was it at all. 

Our God is an omniscient God – a God who knows all. The events in the Garden of Eden came as no surprise to God. There was no Plan B. To redeem fallen mankind, God’s plan all along was to send Jesus to earth to redeem us. Redeem has several descriptive meanings. One is “to buy back.” Another definition is “to free from captivity by payment of a ransom” A third definition is “to free from the consequences of sin.” In other words, we belonged to God. When we sinned, a separation from God occurred. In order to restore us, God redeemed us, buying back what was already His. Redeemer is one of my favorite names for God. 

The story of Hosea is a picture of redemption. God told Hosea to marry Gomer, a prostitute who was unfaithful to him and left him. We are told he bought her back for 15 shekels of silver and five bushels of barley, a significant price. This is what God has done for us. We were His and we sinned. God bought us back (redeemed us) by sending His Son to die on the cross for our sins. As wonderful as it is to be redeemed and saved for our sins, that is not everything that Jesus did for us.

The purpose of redemption in Christ is to raise mankind above the level of the Adamic Covenant, God’s arrangement in which He planned to save man from the just consequences of sin. This was accomplished when Christ died on the cross. In the mid-to-late twentieth century, there was a late-late night series of informationals on television. 

Not only did Jesus’ sacrifice restore us to Adamic Grace, it raised us above the level of Adam. In I Corinthians 15:45-49 we read: 

The first man Adam became a living being;  the last Adam became a life-giving spirit. But it is not the spiritual that is first but the natural, and then the spiritual. The first man was from the earth, a man of dust; the second man is from heaven. As was the man of dust, so also are those who are of the dust, and as is the man of heaven, so also are those who are of heaven. Just as we have borne the image of the man of dust, we shall also bear the image of the man of heaven.

The first Adam was a natural man. We bear his physical image. Adam was made in the image of God. This is not a physical image as God is Spirit, Our likeness to God includes mentally, morally, and socially likenesses. Mentally, we are created as beings who can reason and choose. reflecting God’s intellect and freedom. Morally, we reflect God’s holiness. Socially, humanity was created for fellowship. This reflects God’s triune nature and His love.

All of this unmistakably points to humanity reflecting God. Indeed, through the blood of Jesus, “we are God’s children, and if children, also heirs—heirs of God and coheirs with Christ—if indeed we suffer with him so that we may also be glorified with him” (Rom. 8:17). Jesus accomplished this for us. Lyrics from Josh Groban’s “You Raise Me Up,”express what God has done for us:

 “You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains

You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas

I am strong, when I am on your shoulders

You raise me up to more than I can be.”

When someone dies, particularly a young person, we often hear the statement that the person met an untimely death. Psalm 116:15 reads “Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his faithful servants.” God rejoices when His people have reached the point that they have fulfilled His mission for them on earth. In talking about untimely death, we must take at least two perspectives – the earthly, or human view and the eternal or Godly view. 

The Earthly Perspective

From an earthly perspective an untimely death is one that is unexpected or before it was expected to happen.  It may be sudden. When this occurs, friends and family do not have the opportunity to prepare for the loved one’s death, therefore it can be a shock, perhaps with regrets that we can no longer interact with that person. A hole has been created in our lives. We do not understand why that person died. We may think of the unfulfilled potential of a life that is no longer. 

Of course, there is nothing wrong with us feeling that way. Anytime unexpected bad news happens, we may feel shock, grief, sadness, emptiness, loss of direction among other feelings. We may need an extended period of healing from the loss. Sensitive and significant support may be helpful to the bereaved. There is no “formula” on how to help the individual. Support should be tailored to the needs of the individual. Telling them to “Just get over it” will not be productive. Each of us reacts differently to losses in our lives. 

A person that was a part of our lives is no longer with us. That creates a hole in our lives that must be dealt with. God created us for community.  “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.” John 13:34. When we love, when we let someone be a part of our lives, we make ourselves vulnerable.  When that person is gone, a void is created. The loss, the grief, will still be there but these feelings ease over time. We should be able to accept the loss and move forward. Our community can help us as we move forward.

The Eternal Perspective

Richard Rice wrote “God has given all of us life. And that life has been redeemed by the life of Jesus Christ! Our lives belong to God. He loves us with a fervent love, and is infinitely concerned with our earthly welfare and eternal destiny! God, then, being in control, will allow only that which is BEST according to His wisdom and eternal plan! If He allows tragedy, such as untimely death, to occur, we can trust in God that it will serve a good and rightful purpose in His plan.” We certainly can’t know His plan, and we can’t always understand why God moves as He does.  There are several reasons why God allows death that we might view as untimely.

God allows us to die when our purpose on earth has been fulfilled.  Fulfilling one’s purpose has nothing to do with age. One person may have fulfilled God’s purpose for his/her life at a young age. Others may be in their seventies and still searching for God’s purpose. I think that if we are still around, God still has something for us to do. Jesus died at age 33, which we might say was untimely, but he accomplished His purpose. John 19:30 records Jesus’ last words “It is finished.” His purpose was accomplished.

Richard Rice also states “When one is willing to forego his life in whatever way God chooses, or for whatever purpose it serves in His Work, he has passed his greatest earthly test. There is none greater!” Jesus said in Matthew 16:25: “Whosoever will lose his life for my sake shall find it.”

Our life is more than how long we live. Some can accomplish much in just a few years, others may live into their nineties, still with purpose. Our time on earth is fleeting, regardless of the number of years we live here. The essence of our life is how we live it for God. Paul, In Philippians 1:21-22 said “For to me to live is Christ, and to die is gain. If I am to live in the flesh, that means fruitful labor for me. Yet which I shall choose I cannot tell.” Paul lived for Christ and had a perspective of heavenly life. Knowing what awaits us in eternity, what is more desirable? Life on this broken planet or eternity with God? 

As a child I once thought it would be wonderful to live until I reached age 100. I might make it there, I might not. But that is no longer my goal. I strive to live each day He gives me for Him. We are all just passing through. Does it really matter how long we are here? 

Please bear in mind that I believe eternity begins when we receive Christ. But when we pass from this life into the next, an eternity awaits us that is greater than anything our human minds can conceive. 

Why did Christ die? To state the obvious, Christ died for our sins, He died to give us eternal life. He did not die to give us a long life on earth. Why would we want a long life when we know what lies before us? I like the translation of Psalm 90:12 in the New Living Translation “Teach us to realize the brevity of life, so that we may grow in wisdom. Be aware of our limited time on earth, use it productively.

In Summary

On earth, we have a limited perspective, a finite time. The earthly existence is all we have ever known. But, if we follow Christ, we have a hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11 reads “For I know the plans I have for you,’ declares the Lord, ‘plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future.” That future consists of eternity with the Triune God – Father, Son, and Holy Spirit – “He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death’ or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.”Revelation 21:4.